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05 October 2023

The atheist's gift (partly a repost)

In an excerpt from her book We of Little Faith: Why I Stopped Pretending to Believe (And Maybe You Should Too), adapted for publication in the Washington Post a couple of days ago, Kate Cohen explains crisply why she calls herself an atheist:

It’s not complicated. My (non)belief derives naturally from a few basic observations:

  1. The Greek myths are obviously stories. The Norse myths are obviously stories. L. Ron Hubbard obviously made that stuff up. Extrapolate.
  2. The holy books underpinning some of the bigger theistic religions are riddled with “facts” now disproved by science and “morality” now disavowed by modern adherents. Extrapolate.
  3. Life is confusing and death is scary. Naturally, humans want to believe that someone capable is in charge and that we continue to live after we die. But wanting doesn’t make it so.
  4. Child rape. War. Etc.

Cohen goes on to point out some reasons why, in the USA, atheists might choose not to be very public about their (non)beliefs, leading to her suggestion that surveys may significantly undercount atheists.

Judging by this excerpt, she's not the strongest possible advocate for atheism, but that may not be her main mission. (I've not read the book, just the Washington Post excerpt. If you can't access her article behind their paywall, let me know.) One of her main points is that if atheism can have its public stigma removed, the coercive power of religion in public life can be reduced. This is most likely to happen if atheists come out from undercover: "... the more I say to people that I’m an atheist—me, the mom who taught the kindergarten class about baking with yeast and brought the killer cupcakes to the bake sale—the more people will stop assuming that being an atheist means being … a serial killer."

Her theological critique of faith may be weak in this excerpt, but her political indictments of religion are strong and important—namely the many ways religious people (particularly the Christian right wing) throw their political weight around at the expensive of LGBTQ people, women facing reproductive dilemmas, truth-tellers about racism and its history, and, in general, the constitutional separation of church and state.

The enmeshment of religion and politics is an old story, and by now our defense that "those Christian nationalists are misrepresenting the Gospel" might be wearing thin. To the secular or atheist observer, it's all the same self-delusion under more or less attractive sheepskins.

What responses are we left with?

First, within religious circles, we have every right to confront the misrepresentations, heresies, and counterfeits that threaten the reputation of our faith by all methods consistent with love.

Second, wherever we can make common cause with atheists and others outside organized religion, based on a common commitment to justice and the welfare of the community, we should do so. "Apathy in the face of preventable human suffering is radical evil." (Father Emmanuel Charles McCarthy.)

Third, as individuals, we don't have to cover all of this ourselves. Some of us in the Christian commmunity are more gifted to confront sick theology and biblical malpractice, while others are more gifted to participate in secular alliances.

Finally, instead of marginalizing atheists and contributing to the anti-atheist stigma that Cohen refers to in her excerpt, we should engage with them with respect and gratitude. It's not just that we owe them a coherent and positive explanation of what we really believe. We also owe them a hearing, so they can explain their own position in their own words. As I argue in the following post from 2008, their honest and direct challenge to our beliefs is not an attack, not an insult, not "persecution"; it's a gift.


The atheist's gift. (Slightly edited from the April 2008 original post with time references brought up to date. Includes some rambling at the end that was fun to revisit, but wasn't directly related to the topic!)

Most believers I know don't spend much time hanging out with atheists, but maybe that's too bad.

Michael Ireland of ASSIST News Service recently interviewed Michael Shermer, founder of Skeptic magazine. It's a fascinating, revealing, troubling interview on several levels, which charity prevents me from enumerating. Anyway, I began asking myself the old questions about whether our evangelism is genuinely communicating with unbelievers, or is more an exercise we go through to reassure ourselves. If there's anything that atheists do for us, it is (at least!) to provide that much-needed reality check, providing we don't go out of our way to avoid them!

The whole interview reminded me of a quotation from Nikolai Berdyaev that I've spent a good part of the evening trying to track down. (I read it about 45 years ago.) Berdyaev said something like this: atheism is the dialectical purification of the church's collusion with oppression. (Can anyone help me find the actual quotation?) Thanks to Yakov Krotov's online library, I did find two other relevant quotations from Berdyaev:

Grace has nothing in common with our worldly understandings of obligation, strength, power, causality. Therefore grace is not only compatible with freedom—it is in unity with freedom. But theological doctrines rationalized grace and communicated a sociomorphized grace. For this reason, atheism ('high' atheism, not 'low' atheism) could be a dialetical cleansing of human ideas of God. Those who rebelled against God, because of the world's evil and unrighteousness, were assuming the existence of a higher truth—that is, in the final analysis, God. In the name of God they rose up against God; in the name of a purified understanding of God, they rose up against an understanding of God that had been contaminated by this world. [source]
We must liberate the idea of God from sociomorphism that distorts, degrades, and blasphemes that idea. Human beings can be horribly dehumanized; just so, God too has humanness and demands humanity. Humanity is the image of God in humans. Theology must be freed from sociology, which reflects the fallenness of the world and of humanity. Apophatic theology must go hand in hand with an apophatic sociology. This means purifying our perception of God from any hint of worldly theocracy. The absolutist-monarchist understanding of God has spawned atheism as a justifiable revolt. Atheism (not the vulgar, malicious kind but a higher atheism, acquainted with suffering) was a dialectical turning point in understanding God; it had a positive mission. In this atheism, a cleansing of the idea of God from false sociomorphism was accomplished—cleansing from human inhumanity that had been objectified and carried over into the realm of transcendence. [source]

Once again, a century later, atheists are reminding us that our faith cannot depend on self-contained systems of ideas—the "the self-contained, internally-coherent belief system that is Christianity"... and that ultimately proved unsustainable for Shermer.

We are right to want to base our most intimate communities on a shared faith, but if those communities seal themselves off from any intellectual challenge, they will become micro-tyrannies, substituting group-think for actual knowledge of God, and unable to discern their drift away from the living God.

As Shermer points out from his own experience, "The study of comparative world religions and mythologies from around the world showed me that other people believed just as passionately as I did that they were right and everyone else was wrong about religious beliefs that are mutually exclusive...." We are followers of Jesus not because the church has somehow patched together a religion that's superior to all those other religions—better art, architecture, ethics, miracles, divine beings; nor did we commit ourselves to Christ because someone held a winning hand of dazzling argumentation. (Well, I guess I'm speaking for myself!) We are followers because we are called and we are in relationship to the One who called.

This is why discipleship is far more important for the future of genuine Christianity than any vain attempt to maintain a higher social status or privileged position in society. Grace and relationship are the closest we can come in this life to "proof" of God's promises in Jesus. I can't blame anyone or any group for not taking us seriously if our relationship with that person or group has no grace in it.


It was a lot of fun going through some of my old books in search of that Berdyaev quotation. I found a dusty copy of his Slavery and Freedom that I bought at the Book Exchange on Charles St., Boston, nearly 45 years ago. Next to it, equally dusty, was Nicolas Zernov's The Russian Religious Renaissance of the Twentieth Century, that I bought 46 years ago with my employee's discount at Canterbury House Bookstore in Ottawa.

I had made notes in both books, mostly on notecards, and I had that odd sensation (described beautifully in Milan Kundera's Ignorance) that someone else had written those notes in my handwriting. I found a Berdyaev quotation in my handwriting with the annotation "page 180"—but page 180 of what book? Not one I own. And more intriguing references with page numbers to some book somewhere: "Freedom as burden (Dost.) 28-9." "Moral action—bridge from necessity to freedom (Kant) 41." And I can see that I was already interested in the theme of objectification, which is still important to me.

And here are three cards with a whole sermon in my own handwriting, but I cannot remember writing or delivering that sermon, even though it's not bad. (It's hard to take credit for something I have no memory of composing!)


Looking through an issue of Charisma magazine, I saw a reference to Barack Obama as "just another pawn in Satan's kingdom who adheres to destructive liberal ideas." How those Christians love one another!


As I thought about that Obama reference, a caution just hit me: to relate with grace and courtesy to atheists does not mean to run down other Christians. There's plenty of stupidity in churchianity, and we're right to point it out, but to tear down actual people—those (fill in the blank with the category of your choice)—neither demonstrates graciousness nor builds credibility. With all my heart, I believe that President Bush and the neocons made terrible choices in response to 9/11, and their methods verged on the demonic (employing deception to unleash a lethal conflict that continued to bleed us dry humanly, morally, financially, while not hesitating to use Christian celebrities to puff their case). But I will not call them pawns of Satan or any other name that implies I know more about their spiritual situations than I actually do.


Related posts: 

Worship and offense.

Faith and certainty.

William Barr, Max Boot, and "the vapor trails of Christianity."

(Last week) Hostility "to the Christian faith."


The 2023 Nobel Peace Prize announcement will be streamed here tomorrow morning.

Greg Morgan reflects on the first anniversary of his Elder Chaplain blog.

Speaking of confronting bad theology, once again Beth Felker Jones shows how it can be done.

Is it legitimate to draw connections between contemporary white Christian nationalism and Nazi Germany? (Thanks to Faith on View for the link.)

Matt Rosen on convincement and belonging in Quaker community: a First Monday lecture at Pendle Hill, available in person and online on November 6. Thanks to Chris Stern for the link.

Many Friends are grieving the death of Mariellen Gilpin this past summer. For twenty years she devoted herself to helping Friends share their mystical experiences through the What Canst Thou Say newsletter and Web site. The site will be republishing many of her contributions in upcoming months, including this powerful essay on prayer.

Becky Ankeny on God's Repair Shop. "Imagine God asking us, what do you want me to do with you?"


The original 2008 post included this clip of Jr. Walker and the All Stars. (Another artist whose recordings I cherished as a teenager, but kept hidden from my family.) I'm surprised this clip remains online fifteen years after I first posted it.


Junior Walker and the All Stars, Shake and... by johanpdx

21 September 2023

"This is Dea Cox"

Photo by Judy Maurer.

Roughly once a year for over twenty years, I'd answer the phone and hear this familiar invitation:

"Johan, this is Dea Cox. I'd like you to talk to our Forum class."

When we arrived at Reedwood Friends Church back in 2000, the Forum class had already been going many years. Fred Gregory recalls that he asked Dea Cox to establish and lead this adult education class back when Dea and Lois first arrived at Reedwood, over 45 years ago, and that Dea had participated in planning for the class as recently as August.

When I heard last Saturday that Dea had died the day before, just about the first thing that hit me was, "Oh! I won't hear that familiar voice again." 

But it's not true! It turns out that I can easily close my eyes and hear Dea....

Johan, I've been praying for you and Judy.

Lord, strengthen the bonds of love between us.

I am very concerned that our only answer to the world's problems seems to be violence. I'm sure Christ has a different answer we can't seem to find.

The most significant thing I can do for someone else is to introduce them to Christ.

Photo by Judy Maurer (2005).
There are certain themes we loved to hear Dea talk about. Childhood memories of Arizona. (Judy grew up there, too.) His life with Lois. His Christian faith and Quaker discipleship. Working on educational issues in the Lyndon Johnson administration. Running a family-owned jam-making business. (For years he supplied us with jars of their jam as gifts we would take to Russia.)

One Arizona memory particularly fascinated me. He recalled being paid to catch rattlesnakes so that they could be milked for their venom, which would then be used to prepare snakebite serum. I think he was paid (subject to correction) 5c a snake.

That jam factory brings up another important theme for Dea: food, and specifically, how to prepare amazing meals for large numbers of people. During our years at Reedwood Friends, no church event would be complete without Dea's planning and cooking. We got some insights into his organizational methods as a chef when we were part of his planning team for a Russia-themed fundraising event to help us get to Russia. A whole new cuisine? For Dea, not a problem.

I left most visits to Dea's and Lois's home with at least one book recommendation. Looking over at our coffee table, on a pile of books waiting to be read, I can see the last one he told me about: Timothy L. Smith's Revivalism and Social Reform: American Protestantism on the Eve of the Civil War.

We didn't agree on everything, of course, especially when it came to politics. Dea found it difficult to understand how nice people like us could be Democrats.

However, sooner or later, almost every serious conversation we had turned to one of the central themes of his life: education. He fondly recalled the bygone times of bipartisan unity in Oregon's political life when nearly everyone in politics agreed on the importance of funding education.

What follows is my blog post from eleven years ago about a book that described Dea's approach to being a school superintendent:


Dea Cox and the "people strategy" (October 18, 2012)

Back in September, I wrote about a book that affected me powerfully, Sarah Ruden's Paul Among the People. Whether or not the author intended it, this book seems to me to be one of the most evangelistic I've seen in a long time.

Today I wanted to mention another book that also has a sort of evangelistic quality—again, probably not by authors' intention: The Relentless Pursuit of Excellence: Lessons from a Transformational Leader. The two books are very different: Sarah Ruden wrote about early Christian history, while Relentless Pursuit authors Richard Sagor and Deborah Rickey wrote about an Oregon educator who is still alive and active. They wrote a secular book for a secular audience, but they are clear that this educator, Dea Cox, and the philosophy behind his successful leadership in the school district they describe, are grounded in Quaker faith.

Right from the start, the authors make it clear that Dea Cox didn't pursue a model that is sometimes fashionable today in the high-stakes world of school superintendents—namely the charismatic authoritarian. Nor did he begin his 14-year tenure in the West Linn-Wilsonville school district with a sure-fire set of formulas or educational doctrines that could be replicated by someone else with the right instruction book or guru close at hand. Instead, he pursued and implemented a "people strategy" that became part of the culture of that school district to this day.

Dea summed up his strategy this way: "The secret of being a successful school administrator is to spend your energy and resources attracting and retaining good staff." It's a deceptively simple statement with deep implications, and the book spends most of its pages describing the implementation of this "secret" in recruiting and interviewing new educators, decisions about tenure, budgeting, superintendent-staff relations, relations with students and parents, drawing school boundaries, adopting new technologies, and other areas of educational administration—all of which are loaded with opportunities for conflict and fragmentation. In all of these areas, the three core values of the people strategy are immediately relevant:

  1. No person has a monopoly on wisdom.
  2. We all have things to learn.
  3. Wiser decisions are made when we consider multiple perspectives.

Each chapter of the book is a case study, or set of cases, showing in practical terms how these values are applied. I particularly loved the description of how Dea and his colleagues handled the process of deciding what computer system to use for the district.

Other values important to Quakers are also recurring themes in this book, particularly truth and trustworthiness. The authors show how being truthful, instead of giving in to the constant organizational temptation to "feign certainty," had at least two very practical benefits: credibility with parents, and resistance to complacency within the organization.

Dea and Lois Cox have been a blessing to our meeting, Reedwood Friends Church, and to us personally. Over the years, we've heard Dea describe the values (and some of the wonderfully illustrative incidents) recorded in The Relentless Pursuit of Excellence. Thanks to Richard Sagor and Deborah Rickey, these rich insights have been thoughtfully organized and made accessible in this short, fascinating book.


Tomorrow (Friday), Reedwood Friends Church will host a service for Dea at 11 a.m. (Oregonian obituary.)

Goodbye for now, Dea. I will always cherish your voice.


Greg Morgan: "When someone who is suffering longs for your presence, they aren’t looking for a person with the right words."

Colin Saxton: On death, part two ("Life is what makes death so very precious") and part three ("After you, my dear...").

Frank Newport, Gallup: "Figuring out why the basic R and R [Religious and Republican] relationship exists provides a fascinating and important challenge for social scientists." How I wish I could discuss this with Dea!

The "empty chair" presidency. Hannah Brock Womack, British Quaker, was not allowed to take up her four-year post as Fourth President of Churches Together in England. Here's why she couldn't, and how she nevertheless served the ecumenical movement during those years.

Chris Durante: Considering multiculturalism as a solution to phyletism in the Eastern Orthodox Church.

Two Nonviolent Peaceforce workers report from Odessa (video) in today's Friends Committee on National Legislation online presentation, "Repairing the Wounds of War: Nonviolent Peaceforce in Ukraine." 


I woke up this morning with my mind stayed on Jesus....

02 March 2023

Vanity of vanities: partly a repost

'Your post titled "Vanity of vanities" has been unpublished.' 

About a week ago, I was startled to get this notice from blogger.com. It went on to explain that "Your post titled 'Vanity of vanities' was flagged to us for review. We have determined that it violates our guidelines and have unpublished the URL http://blog.canyoubelieve.me/2008/01/vanity-of-vanities.html, making it unavailable to blog readers."

The letter went on to explain how I could edit the post and submit it for reconsideration. Naturally, being a spiritually mature, even-tempered Quaker, I was ... INCENSED! I looked back at this fifteen-year-old post (archive.org version) which I'd revisited a couple of years ago to edit dead links, photos, and video, and tried to figure out what could have caused the blogger platform to blow the whistle.

After a day or two of calming down, I made a couple more changes—one or two more dead links eliminated, and a newer version of a video subbed in—and republished. Only then did I notice that I had received another notice from blogger.com, from the same date as the previous notice. Subject line: "Your post titled 'Vanity of vanities" has been reinstated." Well!


It just happens that this "Vanity" post's theme, class issues among Friends, has been popping up again.

For one thing, I've had a long-standing concern that I've sometimes shared in this blog, that the ways we Quakers talk about our faith is often too wordy. According to Elizabeth Gray Vining's biography of Rufus Jones, he once gave an address after which he was gently criticized with these words: "Our dear Lord said,'Feed my lambs.' He did not say, 'Feed my giraffes.'"

I've had a couple of chances to help edit text on Quaker Web sites, and I've looked for chances to use language that doesn't imply "if you don't have an advanced education, you're not welcome among Friends." I also remember a Methodist writer who pointed out, rightly or wrongly, that most devotional literature is written by intuitive introverts for intuitive introverts.

And for another thing, Quaker writer and activist George Lakey is coming to our town and to our church this month (information below), and that reminded me of something I've always appreciated about him: his advice that successful movements united people across class lines, rather than dividing them. See the links section below for a couple of samples of Lakey's thinking on class.

Here's an edited and shortened version of my "Vanity of vanities" post. (You can read the comments on the original post through this link.)


Two Johan Fredrik Maurers, both nattily dressed. (At right, my great-great grandfather, 1817-1887.)

Vanity of Vanities [January 2008] 

Questions about Friends and social class have been prominent again in recent weeks in the Friends blogging community.

For examples, go here, if you haven't already:

The Friendly Funnel, "22 Class Steps Forward" [archived]
Susanne Kromberg, "Poll on Class and Faith"
Social Class and Quakers, "Questions, Questions"

Some of these questions came up a couple of years ago, when Brooklyn Quaker wrote his "Thoughts on the New York City Transit Strike--and Quaker Class Narrowness."

I'm happy about this development, in part because of my visceral dislike of elitism and of the spiritual violence that we do when we objectify others. (We "objectify" when we look at people coldly, forgetting their equal status with us as made in the image of God; when we reduce people to categories; when we see them as objects of our agendas, or as irrelevant to those agendas.)

Some of my intense feelings no doubt come from growing up with my mother who believed in the superiority of her German "master race"—to the point that she displayed a swastika on her Skokie, Illinois, front lawn during the controversy over Nazis' wanting to march in Skokie. (Did she ever see the irony later on when she moved north to, of all places, Zion?)

For reasons that relate to our family's own violent history, we straddle classes, which gives me insights that I sometimes would rather not have. No doubt this also adds to my blind spots.

But, turning to Friends, I also share a concern that elitism in any form is a dangerous heresy. It is a betrayal of Friends theology, which is radically hospitable because it respects no categories that are not directly tied to God. You (every possible "you") and I are, first of all, created and loved by God—we have no license to create a category outside that compass. The only relevant remaining categories are (1) presently in community with God (converted and convinced, in Christian Quakerese) or (2) potentially in community with God!

The big issue in my mind is: what is the nature of the border between those two categories? From God's all-encompassing perspective, I'm sure the answer is far more interesting and gracious than anything we can conceive. But descending to our Quaker perspectives for a moment, I can imagine how personal biases affect our answers. I want to defend the importance of conscious personal decision, of saying "yes" to God, so I see a definite boundary there, although one for which that "yes" is the only, and I mean only, requirement to pass. Universalists inside and outside Christianity would see that boundary differently, or not at all. A strict Calvinist would have a different understanding, too.

Whether or not you agree with me about the importance of that conscious and personal "yes," we probably all agree theoretically that nothing else should obstruct the threshold into the community. If there is anyone not living in the glorious freedom of the children of God, we should invite them in. We should certainly think carefully and creatively about what it would take to connect both honestly and persuasively with that person, and what aspects of our corner of the community would undercut our message of hospitality.

Back when Brooklyn Quaker first posted his "class narrowness" thoughts, I responded on his blog as follows:

... I won't take the space here to enumerate the number of class-related snubs I've seen or heard about among Friends.

One such snub deprived us of a working-class smoker (*gasp!* - yes, he smoked, but many of the nonsmokers drank like fish). [Fifteen years later, I am inclined to soften this last judgment.]

A working-class woman struggling with Catholicism was another brief visitor, snubbed in part because of her enthusiasm. [Let me add, however, that one of the weightiest members of that meeting said that this visitor was more like George Fox than anyone he knew.]

A husband and wife who wanted to do door-to-door evangelism were told, "Perhaps you'd be happier elsewhere." This, in a meeting that had shrunk to one-third of its size in fifteen years!!

A meeting made its bathroom off-limits to those coming to get boxes of food.

More pet peeves. (Sure feels good to get these off my chest.) ... Meetings whose rhetoric, however well-intentioned, makes it clear that poor people, low-income people, people of "other" races, addicts and members of addiction recovery groups, are not part of THIS fellowship, even when they actually are. [I'm referring to Friends who regard such people as not necessarily worse than us, but as OBJECTS of our goodness.]

I do have a hypothesis: a group that has integrity and spiritual power can attract people from any race and social class. (Unfortunately, so can groups that fake it well: there's never a time when discernment isn't required.) I remember one very dear Friends fellowship that was pretty homogenous but yearned for diversity; half a block away was a Pentecostal church where there was ACTUAL diversity—racial, social, class, temperament, language. Spiritual power does NOT necessarily mean emotional contortions, but it does mean crossing a threshold of conversion and self-abandonment not typically found among the self-satisfied or terminally autonomous.

For the nnnnth time, this sort of meditation has led me to the question: If I see so much incompleteness, why do I stay among Friends? Because I'm deeply convinced that Quaker discipleship is the most authentic way of being Christian that I've been led to. And the inhibitions and compromises that keep this authenticity under wraps are wearisomely familiar to me because ... I share them! Finally, every meeting for worship is a new opportunity to confront those inhibitions and take another step toward greater faithfulness for myself and my community.

Several of the above-referenced blogs refer in one way or another to cultural screens that may or may not play a role in our being inclusive or exclusive. For example, are we too intellectual? Does our comfort with ambiguity repel those who prefer certainty? Are our activist folkways too full of "inessential weirdnesses"? (Thanks to Jeanne/Social Class & Quakers for this link.)

I resist making these class issues—there are intellectuals in every discernible social class, and certainly self-regarding elites can be addicted to certainty. (How else did we get into Iraq despite the misgivings of ordinary people of every class?)

And I'm not at all worried about our having weirdnesses, since every social group has them, and nobody of any class is so stupid as to think that a new place they're visiting will have no peculiar features at all. My question is, are we willing to do the hard, worthwhile work of figuring out which of our behaviors is just our particular wallpaper, and which actually undercut our theology of radical hospitality?

Some additional thoughts, in no particular order:

  • I continue to believe that the most important pathology underneath Quaker elitism is a defective understanding of God's role in our community. I wrote about this at excessive length here: "Nancy's question" (What are we so afraid of?)
  • I've visited more than two hundred Friends meetings over the years, and we're in the middle of a ceaseless round of visitations within Northwest Yearly Meeting right now. Some Friends meetings have a very truncated social spectrum; others have an amazing range of people. The wider-range meetings seem to have at least a couple of characteristics in common: First, they are places where talking about one's faith is very easy and natural, where people speak openly about what God is doing in their lives. Second, they're places where it is possible to confess doubt, problems, failures, addictions, fear.

    Just one verbal picture: At Melba Friends Church in Idaho, a few weeks ago, a meeting for healing prayer was announced to take place at the rise of meeting for worship. Those who wanted healing prayer were to gather at the front of the meetingroom, while the rest of us got ready for the potluck dinner. There was no mistaking the intense spiritual work that was going on among those gathered at that meeting—but everything about the atmosphere of that community told us that this was completely normal.
  • When I was a Friends denominational bureaucrat, I noticed (and wrote about) the divide between those who were temperamental skeptics and those who were temperamental proclaimers. The seminary, specifically Earlham School of Religion, was a perennial arena for collisions among those two groups. One group was there to explore their spiritual issues; the other was there to refine their existing commitments and prepare to deploy them in pastoral or other forms of service. What I longed for was a depth of love and accountability in the community that would allow both groups to be themselves and still contribute to building up a faithful, hospitable body.
  • No group will grow in numbers or faithfulness through guilt or shame. When Judy and I were young adults, we were at a meeting for business at which someone said, "What our church needs is more young couples." No, not so fast! ... what they needed was more confidence in their own identity as people of God. Anxiety about their defects was useful only if it led to positive, creative work on tearing down barriers, not to a negative tearing down of themselves. This was a meeting full of people who'd done amazing things in their (mostly) long lifetimes; they needed to reveal more of themselves, not obsess on their shortcomings.
  • But on the other hand, maybe that meeting I just mentioned did need to enter a season of self-doubt. They'd been a prestigious Main Street church for so long that perhaps it was important to face at least a few unpleasant realities. My point is to use those doubts creatively, let them break the power of respectability and denial, but then move on to build a more solid foundation of group identity. Recover your dear early love! (Revelation 2:4-5)
  • This same meeting had young people who once challenged the meeting, through a Sunday School teacher, "Some of you have been Quakers for 60 years—why can't you tell us more about why you became Friends and what you've learned about God in those years?" Well, part of the answer was: "Our generational culture is very private." That privacy is not something to be ashamed of, but it needs to be worked on.

Details on George Lakey's upcoming visit, and a few links:

Lakey on "the middle-class capture of Quakerism...."

... and on "coming out as a working class man."

... "How progressives can win."


Source.  

Dining across the divide: Can these two Utah grandmothers have a civil conversation?

Sergei Chapnin's open letter to the bishops of the Russian Orthodox Church.

Last Sunday at Camas Friends Church, Leann Williams spoke on trauma and "conduits of healing." Recommended!

A couple more links on the Asbury revival: Nadia Bolz-Weber, "On Longing and the Asbury Revival"; and Zach Meerkreebs thought his sermon had bombed.

Greg Morgan: When is it ok to greet a death happily?


Yesterday Portland's Waterfront Blues Festival announced that Buddy Guy was scheduled for this July's Festival program as part of Guy's "Damn Right Farewell Tour." You guessed it: I have my pass.

Back to 1969: "My Time After Awhile."

29 December 2022

Digesting 2022


Judy took the photo (above) of people walking down our street in Elektrostal, Russia, back in February 2010. Over the years since, I've loved using this photo in my New Year greetings because I can imagine those neighbors of ours walking in the glow of the winter sun, into the new year.

In reality, they're simply walking on Yalagin Street toward the southwestern corner of the city, which is not far ahead of them. And by now most of the trees on the left side of the street are gone, with new apartment buildings along the same lines as our subdistrict having taken their place.

This year, the Yalagin Street photo is especially poignant to me. It reminds me of good times in Russia, of friendly neighbors, amazing colleagues, lively and curious students, convenient shops, the fitness center at the corner of Yalagin and Fryazovskoe Chaussée, the McDonald's on the other side of the street.

Diagonally across the street was the little shopping center where this conversation took place, as I reported back in 2015:

A few weeks ago, Judy and I went into a store at the Farmers' Shopping Center on Pobeda street, looking for Epsom salt. I began chatting with the sales clerk. She was intrigued by the fact that we lived just a block away from her store. "How long have you been here?" she asked.

"Seven years," I answered.

"So you know we aren't the kind of bad people that the West says we are! You know we are normal, decent people!"

I agreed. "We love our neighbors here. We tell our friends in America about the people we know here."

She spontaneously gave me a big hug and said, "So you know that we Russians are normal people like anyone else in the world. We have never attacked anyone!"

Today, ten months into a cruel war, and (for example) the day after Russian artillery struck a Kherson maternity ward, what would that sales clerk and I now say into each other? What future do I envision awaits those people walking along Yalagin Street?

Here's this year's digest of posts from the past twelve months, one per month. Not surprisingly, but very painfully, one theme dominates right away, from January on: the war in Ukraine—the dying, bleeding, freezing, and dislocations happening within Ukraine, and the degradation of social and spiritual life (or, alternatively, the awful isolation of dissidence, the anticipation of arrest, the choices of internal and external exile) for Russians. My God, I know these people! (Or I thought I did.) Don't they deserve better ... from each other, and from those who claim to be their leaders?

"We have never attacked anyone!"


JANUARY: An artificial crisis (January 20)

Waiting to board Train 34, Odesa-Moscow.
The most bizarre aspect of this artificial crisis is that Ukraine itself has actually posed no threat to the Russian Federation. In fact, there is no immediate threat to Russian security from anyone. Nobody outside Russia has any desire to occupy Russia or to subvert its best future as a prosperous and happy nation. Russia (that is, Putin and his associates) simply seem to believe that the time has come to disrupt the post-WWII collective security architecture represented by NATO and its presumably American puppet masters, and Ukraine is the convenient pressure point for Russian threats.

(I'm not defending that post-WWII collective security arrangement as being above criticism or reform, but threatening to kill Ukrainians seems more likely to reinforce that arrangement than pose an intelligent critique.)

In choosing specifically to threaten Ukraine, not principally for any Ukrainian-based danger to Russia but instead for NATO's supposed transgressions, Russian representatives have practically admitted this very point. Despite the lack of a logical link between Russia's desired changes in NATO policy (denying NATO membership to Ukraine, pulling back missiles from Russia's border countries) and Ukraine itself, Russia threatens military repercussions for any failure of NATO (read the USA) to accept its demands. Russian is not in a position to attack the USA directly; the calculation seems to be that threats against Ukraine would satisfy the need to make American non-cooperation costly.

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FEBRUARY: On regarding Russia "vs" Ukraine: First principles (February 24)

"RUSSIA. BOMBS. UKRAINE."
For most of the last 24 hours I have been keeping an Internet vigil using livecams in Kyiv and near Kharkiv. Right now morning is arriving in Kyiv, and the birds are loud! Every few minutes there are explosions. When I hear the sound of airplanes I assume that they are almost certainly Russian. A building on the Maidan square is flying the Ukrainian flag on its rooftop. I am trying to use these feeds as a prompt to pray without ceasing: let the birds continue, but let the violence stop. It helps a great deal that I remain in touch with people who are in the region and whose perspectives (among the Russians) are similar to the newspaper Novaya gazeta and who are also praying without ceasing.

Another explosion. Another.

If you are reading this blog, you certainly have as much access as I do to sources of information on what is going on in Ukraine, and on the scramble of international players to adopt positions that will benefit Ukraine and themselves. Also, your predictions of short- and long-term outcomes are as good as mine. I just want to take a rest from my Internet vigil over Ukraine's cities long enough to propose a few first principles to help me stay centered in a moment where evil seems again on the march.

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MARCH: The fog of war (March 24)

AP Photo/Nariman El-Mofty. Source.
What else do we know with reasonable certainty about the war in Ukraine?

It is a war. The Oxford English Dictionary defines war as 

Hostile contention by means of armed forces, carried on between nations, states, or rulers, or between parties in the same nation or state; the employment of armed forces against a foreign power, or against an opposing party in the state.

(The Russian word for war is not defined significantly differently; here it is in Ozhegov's widely-used dictionary; and here in the Russian Wiktionary.)

The Russian government prohibits its citizens from using the term "war" for the special military operation it began a month ago, but the plain word admits no ambiguity in this case. Since February 24, the armed forces of the Russian Federation have been using their weapons against Ukrainian targets on Ukrainian territory.

To date this war has caused numerous deaths and enormous destruction. We do not need to know who is guilty of each case of death, injury, and destruction of property to agree. Many people are dead and injured, and their homes damaged or destroyed, who were alive and whole on February 23.

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APRIL: The fog of war, part two: face to face with the curse (April 7)

What do we know with reasonable certainty? Violent deaths have occurred in the places in Ukraine that have been under Russian soldiers' occupation. The bodies display marks of individual, intimate cruelty that can be distinguished from the arguably accidental and random deaths (as terrible as they also are) that are happening in places damaged or destroyed by artillery and air strikes. Viewing the evidence, we come face to face with evil, whoever committed these crimes.

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Is there a "Christian" way to look at this situation? I believe there is, and I summarize it as "shocked, but not surprised."

First of all, sad to say, there is nothing new about wanton cruelty and systematic cruelty in wartime. Degrees may vary from country to country, from army to army, but have we ever witnessed a war between 100% angels on one side and 100% demon-possessed soldiers on the other?

Alexander Solzhenitsyn (from Thomas P. Whitney's translation of The Gulag Archipelago, pronouns in original):

If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil deeds, and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being. And who is willing to destroy a piece of his own heart?

During the life of any heart this line keeps changing place; sometimes it is squeezed one way by exuberant evil and sometimes it shifts to allow enough space for good to flourish. One and the same human being is, at various ages, under various circumstances, a totally different human being. At times he is close to being a devil, at times to sainthood. But his name doesn't change, and to that name we ascribe the whole lot, good and evil.

The Bible is blunt ...

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MAY: Ukraine and the dilemmas of pacifism (May 12)

"Peace to Ukraine," Eddie Lobanovskiy, source.
Depending on this observer's political orientation, he or she might be tempted to abandon pacifism, pointing out that there is absolutely no hope that placating Vladimir Putin, giving him concessions so that he might be nicer to Ukraine, will result in peace. It might be better to support the Ukrainians with weapons as a middle way that is less likely to result in global war than actually fighting alongside the Ukrainian military.

Or he or she might say that we Americans (for example) have invaded any number of countries ourselves, so what basis do we have to criticize Russia, which just wants to ensure safety from NATO's dubious agendas? So sad to see all those awful scenes from Ukraine, but maybe they're fake.

But let's say you and I have put all our eggs into the Jesus basket. Abandoning nonviolence is simply not an option. What can we say that is different from the calculations of our peace-loving friends and neighbors who are casting about for political solutions and compromises when evidence suggests that the aggressor is completely uninterested in what we think of him?

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JUNE: A query on queries (June 9)

Queries were introduced as a practice early in Quaker history, as a set of standing questions that would be directed, perhaps annually, to constituent congregations by the quarterly and yearly meeting. As Jan Hoffman writes in The Historical Dictionary of the Friends (Quakers)

The earliest queries were sent to monthly meetings in the 17th century: "What ministering Friends have died in the past year?" and "How does Truth prosper among you?" New queries have been added, both to collect further information and to sharpen reflection on particular topics. Currently, queries are seen by both individual Friends and meetings or churches as a means of engaging their hearts, minds, and spirits in an examination of their spiritual condition. Only rarely today are written responses to the yearly meeting expected.

(At least three yearly meetings I've visited continue to ask local meetings to respond to queries annually; many others at least expect annual reports from local meetings and churches.)

So ... this practice of ending a sermon with queries for Friends to consider during the silence is a new variation of an old tradition. One important deviation: instead of drawing on a standing list of queries, perhaps seeking the query that most closely relates to the theme of the sermon, this form of query is written particularly for the occasion. As you can see from my examples, they ostensibly serve to encourage reflection on the sermon, but they may also be a way of making the sermon's central points more memorable. As with traditional queries, this new type sometimes includes rhetorical questions that imply a right answer. This may seem manipulative, and maybe that's so, but traditional queries also had a teaching function.

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JULY: "The beautiful Russia of the future," part two (July 21)

One of the most moving parts of that initial program was its footage from Bucha, Ukraine. This documentary segment reviews the horrors of the Russian occupation, and the fresh evidences of killings and tortures found when the Russians left. We come to know the rector of the local Ukrainian Orthodox church, Andrei Galavin, who has become a sort of tour guide for visitors to Bucha. This town has become an obligatory stopping place for politicians and celebrities visiting from abroad—including, as we see, Bono.

Father Galavin. Screenshot; source.

The interviewer speaks to Father Galavin in Russian, but Galavin replies exclusively in Ukrainian. When he's asked about his relationships with Russian people, he is sad but unequivocal: now he avoids them. "Do whatever you want at home," he tells his Russian audience through the interviewer, "as long as here we don't see or hear you."

This response came back to me when I watched a new episode of the interview show "To Be Continued: People," also on YouTube. This time the hosts interviewed Dmitri Bykov, whom I first wrote about back in January 2016, and whose attempted assassination I mentioned here.

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Dmitri Bykov. Screenshot; source.

Galavin's words of alienation about Russians came to my mind when Bykov said, referring to the changes wrought by the current war, "It is clear that Russia crossed many red lines. It cannot live any longer as it did in the past. The world will no longer see [in Russia] a place of spirituality, a place of great culture, a place representing victory over fascism."

But there's more.

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AUGUST: Living without lying, part two: politically motivated (August 18)

From a G.O.P. e-mail.
So, in Trump's case, here is the fateful red line: the hero-figure cannot possibly be guilty. Variations and hedges abound: he's a businessman, not a politician; he sometimes speaks too quickly; yes, admittedly he's a bit vulgar; he's politically naive; the elites are mad because he's fighting for "us." But, crucially, he is never guilty. Any official attempt to hold him accountable is, in every case, "politically motivated," a "witch hunt," and cannot be allowed to run its course. Any resistance from the Trump side to such accountability, in contrast, is not politically motivated.

I read these paragraphs that I've just written, and I'm embarrassed by how stupid this conflict is. Isn't it obvious that we should all wait and watch carefully, and see how each side makes its case? Shouldn't we withhold insults and wild exaggerations while we wait? But people I love and respect have already declared that Trump must not be questioned, and all questions are politically motivated. One Quaker pastor said on Facebook that we now see how absolute power corrupts absolutely. 

In Living without lying, part one, I listed Solzhenitsyn's rules for truthful political speech. Those might have been difficult rules for getting along in the Soviet Union; shouldn't they be easier to implement here and now? (And not just in our personal lives, but also in our behavior on social media, and in our churches.)

Can we publicly commit to Solzhenitsyn's rules as an antidote to the poison spread by politically motivated manipulators--and to the cynicism that masquerades as wisdom in our times? Why or why not?

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SEPTEMBER: "You can never learn that Christ is all you need..." (September 8)

Corrie ten Boom
Corrie's words are a powerful corrective to much that is repellent about contemporary Christianity. Recently I've seen Christians mocking other Christians for stating their pronouns, for advocating being "safe men" (apparently what we need are dangerous men!), for using contemporary music in worship. (You know, even assembling this list might be a form of mocking; I better quit before I enjoy it too much....) So much of what passes for discourse among Christians (Quakers included) seems so hypercritical and crabby. And I won't even go into all the ways Christians scandalize the secular world we're supposed to be engaging.

For all this negativity, I hear Corrie's words as a severe but refreshing corrective. If the last choice I had in this world would be to stay centered on Christ, can I exercise, or at least imagine, that choice right now? What would that do to my priorities? How would that affect how I communicate what's in my heart and listen to what's in yours?

This same exercise is helping me to confront despair. God is apparently not forcing humanity to make decisive choices concerning global warming (although nobody could accuse God of hiding the evidence). God is not staying the trigger fingers on the front lines in Ukraine. Basically, God doesn't seem to be doing what I spend hours asking God to do. Intellectually I know that we humans have the ability and freedom to treat each other cruelly, to overthrow each other's empires and sabotage democracies, and even to choose self-extinction. We're not guaranteed happy endings to any story at all, except one: our relationship with our Creator. Prayer is an expression of that relationship, but not a form of control. The relationship itself is where we rest.

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OCTOBER: Threads of contact, seeds of hope (October 6)

Anna Kikina arriving at the ISS. Screenshot from source.
While politicians compete to propose the most severe sanction policies, non-governmental actors have proposed and imposed boycotts of their own, including the breaking of cultural ties. It may seem only fair to do so; after all, Russian leaders have openly declared that Ukrainian identity, even Ukraine's national existence, should be severely restricted or ended altogether; why should Russians not expect similar attitudes in response?

But how does boycotting Russian artists and musicians, human beings all, and insulting their domestic and international audiences, promote justice and healing for Ukraine? The primordial sin is objectifying each other, no matter who commits that sin, or why; and once you go down that path, you look more and more like the forces you oppose.

I think I understand the impulse to pile on ever more actions to isolate Russia's government. Each new Russian initiative ("partial" mobilization, "annexations") leads to another round of sanctions, as if to say, "now we're really serious." If only each new sanction were matched to an initiative to break through the isolation and reach Russian citizens with this simple message: we too yearn for the "beautiful Russia of the future—a happy, prosperous global neighbor, a land of justice at home and a blessing for the whole world."

In the meantime, this is what Russians are hearing from their celebrity commentators: The leaders of the USA and NATO countries do not want Russia to exist; they don't want the Russian language to exist. As long as such people run the West, war is better than peace; and, specifically, these enemies of Russia must be killed. As it turns out, the rhetoric of nationalist extremes in many places (the USA included) turn out to be remarkably similar.

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NOVEMBER: Quaker Shaped Christianity by Mark Russ (November 3)

One by one, Russ examines the false scandals that alienate many Friends from the depth and simplicity of Christ's invitation to follow him ...

  • threats of hell for those who have made mistakes in behavior or doctrine
  • misuse of the Bible as journalism or codebook
  • linking the execution of Jesus to a wrathful God and our own fatal flaws
  • the use of sin-talk to shame and dominate individuals without regard for sinful systems.

He also discusses the various work-arounds that Friends (particularly liberal Friends) tend to use to avoid these scandals ...

  • forms of universalism that claim an impossible (and condescending) objectivity
  • admiration for Jesus as a great moral teacher while stripping away his cultural location, his resurrection, the cross, and his origin story--all the elements that fixed his reality in the minds of his followers, and whose testimonies about him make no sense without those mysteries
  • early Friends' faith as limited by their cultural restrictions rather than enriched by insights into the radical immediacy of the Holy Spirit's work in them
  • the list of Quaker don'ts (the church ceremonies we don't have) that are not simply sectarian markers but actually signs that we are living in the unfolding presence of Jesus. Or as Russ puts it, the early Friends "... saw other Christians as still waiting for Christ to come again, and worshipping in 'meantime' ways. In their experience, Christ had arrived, meaning that all 'meantime' practices had to stop."

So far I've focused on the "argument" dimension of this sparkling book, but its real power is Mark's own voice, his transparency about his own life and his path into Christian community.

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DECEMBER: Churches and "political homogeneity" (December 1)

On the one hand, I love that segment of the church market that doesn't require everyone to have the same political orientation, because it's my fantasy that the church is one of the few institutions that is (or ought to be) totally independent of political allegiances—and therefore a place where people with dramatically different political views can worship together, while challenging each other lovingly.

Frank Chapman, source.
My Facebook Friend Frank Chapman and I agreed on very little politically, as you might guess from the photo with his gun and his hat, but what we did agree on was far deeper. Somehow he put up with my constant arguing, Other MAGA people on social networks have simply cut me off, but Frank was just not like that. Sometime last fall I began to miss his provocative posts, and I checked his profile to see what he was up to, only to learn that he had died. It felt like an enormous loss. I want room in my church for people like Frank (and in his church for people like me). Frank was someone who motivated me to make a real case for my values across cultural and linguistic lines rather than staying safely with people who already agree with me.

On the other hand, what if a political bias is built into my discipleship? My whole concept of church is that we're people who are learning what it means to live with Christ at the center, including the ethical dimensions of such a life, and are helping each other in that work. Everything that is distinctive to me about being a Quaker—the values of peace, simplicity, community governance based on group prayer and discernment, radical hospitality, leadership based on spiritual gifts and not false social distinctions—it's what we've learned about living with Christ at the center. Why should I be surprised that some political positions might be more congenial than others, to those of us who share this vision of discipleship?

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Is the new Israeli government so extremist that it is actually a gift to anti-Zionists?

Empire and the "small peoples of Russia."

A Lawfare roadmap to January 6-related reports, documents, and testimonies. (Thanks to Noli Irritare Leones.)

Another end-of-year list: Nancy Thomas on the best books of 2022.


"Queen Bee." Almost 45 years ago I heard Taj Mahal perform at a free open-air concert in Boston, Massachusetts. This year I finally heard him again, at the Waterfront Blues Festival in Portland, Oregon. To my eyes, he looked frail as he made his way onstage to his seat, but once he began performing, he was playing with power. Here's his recent contribution to the Playing for Change series—performing together with Playing's usual international collage of great musicians.